God's Rules On Marriage

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The concept of dating and marriage is totally wrong when it comes to God's expectations of how it should be facilitated or managed. Please read my article "The Dangers Of Being Unequally Yoked". The world has abandoned biblical principles for what God deems as lawful marriage, to handle things in ways that feel right to man. Proverbs 14:12 states, "There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death." People go about dating and marriage the wrong way, thinking it's the right way to do things. This human way of doing things often ends with bad results, but humanity still insists on performing courtship the worldly way. The origin of this way is satanic in nature and can be traced back to the ancient lie told to Adam and Eve in the Garden Of Eden. This was the lie representing good and evil. Genesis 2:17 describes how God commanded them not to eat the tree of good and evil. This tree represents knowledge being good, but can also be used for evil. God didn't want man exposed to unnecessary information that could hinder their eternity. God only wants man to live by the knowledge that proceeds out of his mouth. Matthew 4:4 confirms this. Genesis 3:5 describes Satan the serpent selling Eve on the benefits of possessing forbidden knowledge. What is this forbidden knowledge you may ask? First, you must understand Satan's deception hidden within the truth. Knowledge of evil may oppose God's word, but it may still yield certain benefits temporarily to fleshly matters. In the end, it leads to death but doesn't necessarily kill one instantly in the physical. Genesis 2:17 explains God informing Adam and Eve of the consequences of utilizing evil knowledge to add temporal benefit to one's physical life. God wasn't saying they would die instantly, but was inferring they would be destined to suffer eternal spiritual death at the time of judgment. There are two ways to handle life problems, with good knowledge or evil. Both may work, but only one comes with no negative side effects. God-given knowledge is considered a blessing and according to Proverbs 10:22, that same knowledge addeth no sorrows. Evil knowledge given by Satan can be camouflaged as blessings because it may seem to get the job done quicker but doesn't mean it was the right choice to make. This knowledge curses the user because it's considered an act of disobedience to God. This is due to forbidden knowledge going against God's original instruction for how humanity should govern itself. Just because it works, doesn't mean it's God ordained. In the end, evil knowledge never works out for the user, it always leaves its victims in a worse state than they were initially. People flock to evil knowledge for worldly answers because they tend to lead to quicker resolutions. People are not willing to trust the process and do things God's way due to it not fitting their time frame. When humanity forsakes God's instruction in search of Satan's, they invite curses into their lives. It may seem like you're getting ahead, but it's really a curse camouflaged as a blessing. Satan gives no free gifts. Satan provides his solutions to humanity with the intent to lead them to destruction. According to Proverbs 10:22, God provides holy solutions, that add no sorrow. Anything Satan helps one obtain will soon be accompanied by sorrow. It has been known, that fast money obtained through devious means will not last. People know this but still roll the dice with their freedom. Due to a lack of faith and patience in doing things with integrity, victims fall prey to looking for shortcuts. Just because it takes longer, doesn't mean it isn't worth doing things the right way. According to 1 Corinthians 15:58, things done God's way will last. By default, this scripture also informs us that whatever is done Satan's way will not last. People should understand, that you don't have to go to Satan directly, to receive his help. You can obtain worldly solutions from Satan via his representatives. Whether they agree or not, worldly people are satanic ambassadors, due to their forsaking the laws of God. According to John 8:44-45, worldly people do the will of their father, Satan. This means when you accept help from Satanic representatives, you indirectly make contracts with Satan. According to Amos 3:3, to sin is to come into agreement with Satan. According to Psalm 1:1, those who walk in Satan's council choose to be cursed. Anything cursed will be drowned in an ocean of misfortune.

People often get dating and marriage advice from these sources:

• Worldly Social Media Dating Pages:

• Worldly Social Media Dating Advice Channels:

• Worldly Friends and Strangers

• Horoscopes

• Worldly Movies

• Worldly Music

• Worldly Hollywood Celebrities

• Worldly Dating Advice Books

• Worldly Dating Coaches

• Fortune Tellers

Advice given by these venues listed above may contain information that does make sense, but it ultimately goes against what the word of God stands for in the grand scheme of things. It's Satan's deception to mix truth with carnality. This is how the serpent deceived Adam and Eve in the book of Genesis. The Bible never documented any issues with Adam and Eve's relationship until the fruit was eaten in Genesis 3:6-12. Notice after they listened to the serpent, their eyes became open to carnal things. It stated in the text they saw each other naked. When we allow Satan to open our eyes through evil knowledge, it makes one's flesh aware of flaws in our partner and the relationship as a whole. Once satisfied with your partner, now they're no longer good enough. According to Galatians 5:16, those who depend on God's spiritual knowledge to guide their relationships, will not fulfill the lust of what the flesh deems more satisfying versus what God deems more fulfilling for a couple's spiritual well-being. Satan teaches you to look for physical flaws in your current relationship and seek out the best person who can satisfy you more physically. Proverbs 27:20 describes how the eyes of humanity are never satisfied. This is due to lust of the flesh. Satan knows the flesh always wants better than what it has. The flesh is never satisfied. No matter how many good things a person does right, they will never be enough for a carnal partner who walks according to their flesh. Satan spread his philosophy of high value vs low value through his Satanic ambassadors. Now one's fleshly appearance must go through a scale of 1-10 before they're even considered valuable in everyday society. This is satanic programming. Satan has conditioned the masses to choose their mate based on what's best for their flesh, instead of what's best for their spiritual health, according to God's word. Proverbs 27:20 confirms us as being fearfully and wonderfully made. According to Genesis 2:25, when we look at our partners through God's word, we will remain content with what God has given us. There will be no shame between each other. This is why loyalty in relationships has become taboo. Too many people are engaged in union with worldly people who allow their flesh to guide their moral decisions.

This leads to the following negative side effects in relationships:

• Cheating/ having side partners

• Divorce

• STD's

• Children conceived outside of marriage.

• Same-sex relationships

• Polygamous relationships

• Wife pregnant with another man's child

• The husband has impregnated another woman with a child.

• Single mothers

Infidelity wouldn't be this rampant if people would learn to go about dating God's way. God encourages no sex outside of marriage, but people don't listen and become plagued with STDs, then come home and give it to their partners. Children are born out of lust and end up being neglected by parents due to them being a byproduct of sexual promiscuity. These same children then grow up under a curse of illegitimacy and often suffer rejection in life. People forsake the original design for God-ordained relationships and engage with the same sex. This violates God's law because you can't be fruitful and multiply entertaining same-sex relationships. God only ordained a relationship between two partners, but throughout history, even in biblical days, people have gone against God's law and pursued lustful desires. In a carnal world, integrity suffers. Women and men who have taken vows to spend their lives with a significant other violate the agreement by giving into lust of the flesh. This leads to children born outside the marriage relationship and often breaks up the union. This is what Satan desires, to break up relationships operating in God's spiritual laws. He knows there's power in it, so he seeks to keep couples divided. There are so many single mothers in the world by design. Satan has conditioned the world to manifest these unfortunate circumstances. His goal is to keep fathers out of the home, so the children will face rejection and grow up to become delinquents. This makes it easier for Satan to recruit them into the kingdom of darkness and make them ambassadors for his kingdom. Satan effectively uses the tactic of "unequally yoked". This is a form of destiny diversion and can often lead to destiny abortion. Who you marry will determine the outcome for the rest of your life. This will also determine if you will complete God's assignment for your life successfully. For this reason, 2 Corinthians 6:14 discusses the importance of not being unequally yoked. Satan can lead you to the wrong partner to prevent you from fulfilling God's call successfully in your life. A lot of people don't follow God, so they're not aware that God even has an assignment for their lives. For this reason, they don't choose partners carefully for spiritual health but are chosen according to what satisfies one's flesh. This single tactic alone has aborted many God-ordained destinies.

Godly Laws On Marriage

1. According to Mathew 19: 4-6, God only ordained righteous relationships between one woman and one man. No one has the authority to separate God-sanctioned unions outside of God's word. If the reason doesn't align with God's word, the union cannot be broken. Disobedience to this law can lead to eternal damnation.

2. According to Malachi 2:14-16, God is a witness to every husband's actions performed in his marriage. If a man mistreats his wife, he will be subject to eternal damnation.

3. According to 1 Corinthians 7: 10-14, the wife cannot leave the husband. The husband cannot leave the wife. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Arguments in marriage will not hold up as an excuse for divorce in the courts of God. If the wife divorces her husband unlawfully, she must remain unmarried until her ex-husband is deceased. Please read 1 Corinthians 7:39. The courts of God still look at both parties as married due to the divorce violating God's laws. If the woman or man gets married to another person after an unlawful divorce, they would be living in fornication. Fornication is a term that refers to consensual sexual intercourse between two people who are not married to each other. If the wife is not a Christian, but she still wants to be with her husband, by Godly law the husband must keep his wife. If the husband is not a Christian, but he still wants to be with his wife, by Godly law the wife must stay with her husband. Being unequally yoked is not an excuse that will hold up in the courts of God for terms of divorce. Failure to obey these laws can cause both parties to be subject to eternal damnation.

4. According to Matthew 5:31-32, the only lawful divorce whom the courts of God will honor is for the reason of infidelity from either party. Please read Matthew 19:6-9. A man that divorces his wife unlawfully, causes her to commit adultery. Adultery is defined as voluntary sexual activity between a married person and someone other than their spouse. Any man who is unlawfully divorced and chooses to marry another person commits adultery as well. Please read Mark 10:2-12, Luke 16:18, and Romans 7:2-3. Failure to follow these Godly laws can result in eternal damnation.

5. According to Hebrews 10:26, preachers who condone and remarry unlawfully divorced people are doomed to hell if they don’t repent. Unlawful remarriage is a sin. It's their responsibility to know the laws of God, so they can prevent their flock from making decisions that can result in eternal damnation. An interesting fact is, that a lot of them are unlawfully married themselves. According to Luke 6:39, preachers who are blind to the truth can't lead people in correct decision-making when it comes to marriage. Such an unwise council will cause both teacher and student to be brought to hell.

6. According to Psalm 26:4 and 1 Corinthians 15:33, whenever family, friends, and especially Christians validate and take part in unlawful marriage/remarriage ceremonies(weddings), they’re placing themselves under condemnation. They must repent. By attending these events, you're placing yourself in agreement with those who choose to rebel against God's order of what is deemed a lawful marriage. In God's court, you're guilty by association.

7. According to Ephesians 5:33, the husband is commanded to love his wife. The wife is commanded to respect her husband. If both parties forsake this Godly law, both parties would be subject to eternal damnation if not repented of before death.

8. According to Jeremiah 3:1, if a man divorces his wife, then she marries another man, it would be a sin to engage with her again since she now belongs to another man. It doesn't matter the history. When a man decides to divorce, he should think wisely about his decision. He can't engage her in sexual activity since she no longer belongs to him, but legally another.

9. According to Malachi 2:16, the lord hates unlawful divorce. The lord is very displeased with husbands and wives who separate from their spouses for fleshly selfish reasons. God established marriage to last a lifetime. You don't get to say I'm divorcing a person because I'm not in love anymore. Your commitment to God should trump your emotional state of mind. This excuse wouldn't hold up in the courts of God. You made a contract deal in the presence of heaven and God expects for you to honor it. What if God reneged on his promises out of anger? Could you imagine the state humanity would be in right now?

10. According to Hebrews 13:4, all those who defile the marriage bed with Satanic practices, place themselves in jeopardy of hellfire. This includes sexual positions that belong to Satan. These sex positions include actions that mimic those of animals(doggy), Kamasutra, or oral sex. Please go read my article "Oral Sex Is Demonic". Inviting outside partners to participate in marital sexual activities, such as threesomes, foursomes, orgies, swinging, etc, defiles the marriage bed.

11. According to Deuteronomy 24:1-4, It's not a good look to divorce your wife and remarry her after she has been defiled in another marriage to a different man. In the old biblical days, God saw this as an abomination. Even though this is the Old Testament, this was still a God-ordained commandment to his people at that time. It's up to you to decide how you should choose to decipher this information. Though it is an Old Testament commandment, it still provides wisdom to these current times.

12. According to Exodus 22:16–17, If a man seduces a virgin and engages in sexual activity with this woman whom he is not engaged to, he is required to pay a bride price, effectively compensating her family. According to Deuteronomy 22:28-29, if a man has relations with an unbetrothed virgin, he must pay a specified amount to her father and then take her as his wife. The scripture states, "50 shekels of silver". In current U.S. dollars, this is $13.95. A dowry is a gift of money(bride price), property, or other valuables given by both families as part of a marriage. According to biblical records, the father sets the terms and conditions for the required dowry. Before a man marries a woman, he must get the blessing of the father. If the father is deceased, then he must get the blessing of the stepfather. If the woman's father is deceased and the mother is single, then he must get the blessing of the mother. In my personal opinion, if the woman's mother and father are both deceased, then you must get the blessing of the next closest kinship.

    1. In 1 Samuel 18:25–27, King Saul sets a condition for David to marry his daughter Michal. David is required to obtain a bride price—which was a hundred foreskins of the Philistines, in context, functions similarly to a dowry—as a demonstration of his worth and commitment. This exchange reflects the ancient custom of a transactional component in marriage rather than a gift from the bride’s family.

    2. Regarding Genesis 24, although not labeled explicitly as a dowry, the narrative in Genesis 24 about Abraham’s servant finding a wife for Isaac contains elements of a marriage transaction. The servant negotiates with Rebekah’s family and offers gifts, which serve to formalize the marriage arrangement. This story, like others, shows how marriage in the ancient Near East often involved tangible exchanges that helped secure the union.

    3. In Genesis 29, Jacob agrees to work for Laban for seven years in exchange for marrying his daughter Rachel. Although this is not a dowry or bride price in the traditional sense (since it involves labor rather than a one-time monetary or goods exchange), it does reflect the transactional nature of marriage negotiations in the ancient Near Eastern context. Here, marriage is formalized through an agreed-upon exchange, albeit through service rather than immediate wealth transfer.

    4. According to Genesis 34, Dinah, the daughter of Jacob, was taken(sexual intercourse) by Shechem, a prince of the local Hivite community. In the narrative, Shechem defiled her, an act that brought great shame to her family. In response, her brothers, particularly Simeon and Levi, devised a plan to avenge her honor by deceitfully agreeing to intermarriage, insisting on circumcision as a condition, and then attacking and killing the men of the city while they were recovering. The text focuses more on the fallout and the family’s retributive actions than on Dinah’s personal experience following the incident. Genesis 34:11-12 succinctly expresses the profound shock and dismay that the defilement of Dinah brought upon her family. The verses reveal that this act not only dishonored Dinah but also threatened to bring widespread shame and ruin to her entire clan, highlighting how deeply personal transgressions were intertwined with family honor in ancient society. Shechem volunteered to fulfill the necessary dowry requirements to consecrate a marital union. This was done in hopes of rectifying human error.

    5. Men who marry without fulfilling the necessary dowry requirements to the bride's family have married unlawfully. This marriage will not be honored in God's sight. The marriage will be deemed illegitimate and both parties will be guilty of living in fornication.

    6. According to1 Peter 2:13-17, "ordinance" refers to the laws, regulations, or commands established by human authorities. Peter is urging believers to respect and submit to these civil orders—whether they be decrees from a king, local magistrates, or other governmental bodies—for the sake of order and the common good, recognizing that such systems are instituted by God. This submission is meant to honor the established societal structure without compromising one’s ultimate allegiance to God’s higher law.

       • I personally don't believe prenuptial agreements are of God. These types of agreements are forged from greediness and inconsideration. A prenuptial agreement, also known as a prenup, is a legal contract between two people who are about to get married. It outlines how assets, debts, and spousal support will be handled if the couple divorces or one dies. I can understand men not wanting to be taken advantage of financially, but alot of men divorce their wives for unlawful reasons, then use the prenup as an escape door to evade responsibility for their actions. If the divorce request is lawful due to the infidelity of the wife or man, then I believe prenuptial agreements do hold weight in this particular circumstance. Using prenuptial agreements to divorce a wife who fulfills all her wifely duties and hasn't committed any infidelity is offensive to God. The man is just taking advantage of the system due to him finding another woman or has just grown tired of the current one. There are circumstances where the woman is the breadwinner. These types of women tend to abuse prenuptial agreements too if they're unethical. Marriage is a lifetime commitment meant to be upheld through the good and the bad. Would you tell God you divorced your wife because you got tired of her and didn't have the decency to settle financial compensation in court to make sure she was taken care of? No, you wouldn't, due to this behavior being unethical. God will not tolerate a carnal man's selfishness. As a woman, would you feel comfortable telling God you divorced your husband because he didn't have enough to offer you? If this be true, why did you marry him? God will not tolerate selfishness from a carnal woman either. In my personal opinion, even if a man rightfully divorces his wife due to infidelity on her part, he should still provide some type of compensation and asset leverage to make sure she has a good head start adjusting to her single life status. I say this because most women are dependent on their husband's income in the marriage. These women often divorce keeping the kids. This is another valid reason that women should be compensated regardless of how the divorce occurred. Why would I ask a man to give a woman financials as a parting gift in court, even though she was at fault? This is a form of grace that God extends to humanity whom doesn't deserve it. If men are striving to be like Christ, they should also extend grace(mercy) to whom may not deserve it. Regardless of whose at fault in the divorce, if the man allows the woman to maintain custody of the kids, he still maintains financial responsibility for them until a certain age. If the woman allows the man to maintain custody of the kids, she still maintains the responsibility of helping to care for the children, even if it's not monetarily. Please review 1 Timothy 5:8.

       • If a woman uses the children to manipulate a man out of spite for how the relationship ended, she will be in danger of judgment. This is a form of witchcraft. The kids shouldn't be used as a weapon against the father. If a woman manipulates the court system to receive unethical amounts of money for child support with no intention of using it for child maintenance purposes, she will be in danger of hellfire. This is systematic robbing. If a woman marries a man for his money with the intent to have children and secure financial support through state divorce laws, she will be in danger of hellfire, as this is another tactic of systematic robbing. If either party marries with the intent of taking advantage of insurance money, they will be in danger of hell's fire. If either party marries an older person due to them having financial wealth and a short time to live, they will be in danger of hell's fire. If either party marries a person due to them having financial wealth in general and not for pure motives, they will be in danger of hell's fire due to unethical intent. If a woman has a child outside of wedlock and deceives the husband into thinking it's his, she will be in danger of hellfire. This is due to infidelity and manipulating the husband to spend money on a child that isn't his. If you are not married to a man, but deceive him into thinking a child belongs to him, you will be in danger of hellfire as well. This is due to you deceiving a man to give money for a child that doesn't belong to him. Please refer to Proverbs 21:6. If a man or woman lies about their income, or decreases his or her income so to avoid fair child support, he or she will be in danger of hellfire. The children should be taken care of regardless of the circumstances. Please refer to Acts 5:3.

13. Within 1 Timothy 3:1–7, In this passage, Paul outlines the qualifications for overseers (or bishops). Verse 2 specifically states that an overseer must be "the husband of one wife." This requirement underscores the importance of marital fidelity and a stable family life as indicators of a leader’s character and ability to manage responsibilities both at home and in the church. Within Titus 1:5–9, Paul instructs Titus to appoint elders who must be "blameless, the husband of one wife." This qualification reinforces the expectation that church leaders lead exemplary lives, with a particular emphasis on their commitment and integrity in marriage.

    1. Church leaders who don't adhere to God's marriage laws are in danger of judgment. They will be punished more severely because they are light-bearers of God's holy word. This ultimately means they should know better. Church leaders are commissioned to lead by example. When they violate God's laws, they become big stumbling blocks to the sheepfold. Examples of forbidden behavior for church leaders:

       1. Married, but sleeping with another member of the church.

       2. Not married, but sleeping with members of the church.

       3. Not married, but in same-sex relationships.

       4. Not married, but conceiving illegitimate children.

       5. Married to a woman, but sleeping with men.

       6. Unlawfully divorced, but married to another woman.

       7. Married, but conceived a child with another woman.

       8. Married to the same sex.

       9. Lawfully divorced, but in a relationship of fornication.

    2. These are just a few examples that disqualify most church leaders from their positions. How many church leaders do you know that are currently serving in a position they no longer qualify to be in? We have church leaders preaching to others how to keep the laws of God but on their 5th or 6th marriage. We have church leaders whom are preaching holiness but are guilty of all 8 things I listed previously. These same church leaders will then use the bible to justify their sinful life choices and lead many church followers down the same path. How can a preacher be taken seriously on his 6th marriage? It's no surprise that alot of these pastors are unlawfully marrying people together because they're in unlawful marriages themselves. How can a church leader be taken seriously guilty of any of the 8 above? God has called church leaders to lead by his true Godly example of holiness.

    
    
    
    

Biblical Views On Polygamy

The Bible presents a complex view of polygamy. While it was practiced by several prominent figures in the Old Testament, it is not explicitly endorsed as God's ideal for marriage. Here’s a breakdown of what the Bible says about polygamy:

Old Testament

1. Polygamy Was Practiced – Many key figures had multiple wives, including:

   • Abraham (Genesis 16:1-4) – Took Hagar as a second wife at Sarah’s urging.

   • Jacob (Genesis 29:15-30) – Married both Leah and Rachel, and also had children with their maidservants.

   • David (2 Samuel 3:2-5) – Had multiple wives.

   • Solomon (1 Kings 11:1-3) – Had 700 wives and 300 concubines, which led to his downfall.

2. God Allowed It but Did Not Command It – The law in Deuteronomy 21:15-17 provides regulations for a man with multiple wives, implying that polygamy was tolerated.

3. Warnings Against It – In Deuteronomy 17:17, God warns that kings should not take many wives, as it would lead them astray.

New Testament

1. God’s Ideal is Monogamy – Jesus reinforced that marriage is between one man and one woman:

• Matthew 19:4-6 – Jesus quotes Genesis, saying that “the two shall become one flesh,” emphasizing monogamy.

• 1 Timothy 3:2, 12 & Titus 1:6 – Church leaders (elders and deacons) are required to be “the husband of one wife,” suggesting monogamy was expected.

2. Polygamy is Not Encouraged – The New Testament emphasis is always on monogamous marriage.

Broken Marriage Vows

Below is a general summary of wedding vows:

I, ____, take you, ____, to be my wife (or husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part, according to God's holy law, and this is my solemn vow.

• Alot of people say these vows on the altar, but they don't mean them. Many people commit to upholding God’s laws without fully understanding them. Would you sign a contract without reviewing the terms and conditions? It's just a common formality executed while being overwhelmed by temporal human emotions. Human emotions can't be trusted as they change. One may have married due to emotion, but maturity comes from understanding what marriage vows really mean. When one understands and commits to the vows they're stating on the altar, they're displaying discipline and Godly respect. Emotions won't keep you married, but discipline will. When you maintain discipline to vows given before God, you show God respect by keeping your word. Love isn't just a feeling, but an understanding. You relayed to God that you understand that vows must be kept regardless of how you feel. Therefore love can be classified as an act of discipline. You should never allow your emotions to dictate your discipline. Please refer to John 14:15.

  • The danger of breaking a promise to God: Those who disregard commitments and pledges made before God will be in danger of Hellfire. God hates when people break promises to him, due to him being true to his word according to 2 Peter 3:9, Numbers 23:19, and Jeremiah 1:12. People don't realize that a marriage ceremony is not just a day of celebration, but a day where both parties show up before the courts of Heaven to sign a serious contract. Failure to adhere to the contractual terms and conditions could yield deadly consequences. If business people on Earth fail to adhere to contractual terms and conditions, they could be fined or placed in prison. What do you think happens when people break contracts made with God? If not repented of, they will go to hell. Is hell not a spiritual prison? God is the ultimate businessman. Marriage is a form of business which is an extension of ministry for God. God wants to use your marriage for kingdom business. If you mismanage his business placed in your care, you will have to face the courts of Heaven. Marriage isn't just for your happiness, but to be used as a vehicle to aid in fulfilling your Godly calling. God wants to use your marriage to build his kingdom. A marriage that doesn't honor God's word and build upon his kingdom, is a selfish, unfruitful, and carnal marriage. These types of worldly marriages are considered failed businesses in the eyes of God. Please refer to Matthew 25:14-30.

  • Below is a list of things God will judge vow breakers for:

    • Those who don’t keep their commitment. (Ecclesiastes 5:2-5)

    • Those who abused the trust given to them. (Proverbs 3:29)

    • Those who did not respect their words. (Matthew 15:8)

    • Those who did not respect the deadline of their commitment. (Psalm 15:4)

    • Those who have given up on assuming their responsibility, they failed to do that task. (Luke 9:62)

I hope this article has enlightened you on how to choose a God-ordained spouse and how a Godly marriage should be maintained. Please share this article with others so they can become aware of the dangers of violating God's sanctity of marriage. Many spouses will be lost to hell for disobeying God's laws on marriage, don't let it be you.